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Contributors: Josh Cochran, Greg Ramos, Chris Johnston, Patty Crone, Jodi Ware, Jennifer Burchill, Steve Malecha, Shelly Krill, Brandee Price, Valicia McPherson, Jane Baker, Angel Halls, Dale Briggs, Carol Sexton For questions, contributions or suggestions, please contact Brandee Price at (303) 457-2183, email her at communications@stargateschool.org, or drop a note in the Communications Committee mailbox by the staff lounge. Please remember that this newsletter is completely volunteer produced. Thanks to everyone for contributing.
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March 2008 February 2008 November 2007 October 2007 August 2007 2006-2007
In This Issue...
Stargate's Math Program - by Patty Crone
CAGT Conference
Stargate Founders Conference
High School Options Night
The Needs of Highly Gifted Students at Stargate
New Teacher Interview - Mrs. Singer
How Nancy Hall Affected My Education and Life
Library News and Information
PSC Bingo Night Dec 6th
Band & Orchestra
What’s going on with the Stargate Website?
Winterfest!
HealthWise - About MRSA
| STARGATE’S MATH PROGRAM — HERE’S HOW IT ALL ADDS UP
By Patty Crone, Head-of-School
November’s Parent-Staff Council meeting features a presentation by team leads and middle school math teachers on the whys and wherefores of the Stargate mathematics program, followed by an opportunity for parents in attendance to view textbooks and examples of student projects, as well as a chance to ask questions of the teachers.
As we know, Stargate parents have been curious (read: “anxious”) as to why we use a variety of math programs across grade lines, when most schools choose only one for all grades. In addition, because some of these programs look very different from the ones which parents experienced, this can produce some insecurities. Consequently, it is important for all to be aware of the careful thought process and research that went into the decisions.
Beginning in 2006-2007, the Kindergarten team chose to invest in Everyday Math, which had been introduced for the 1/2 students during the prior year. After attending the training, the Kindergarten team decided to move forward with this program because of its emphasis on math fundamentals. Research shows that young children often have difficulty with written and symbolic math if it is introduced too early. EDM, however, presents math via hands-on experience and genuine understanding, rather than on memorization of facts. In addition, EDM increases the amount of time spent on math because it is integrated into other subject areas. Kindergarten teachers wanted to tailor the program to better fit the needs of their students, who need more fast-paced programs and enrichment opportunities. And to support the validity of the decision, the teachers expect that the children will have moved into the first-grade level of the sequence in January—just halfway through the Kindergarten year.
The 1/2 team adopted Everyday Math because it gives the students a strong foundation in number sense, in addition to the concepts behind the equations. Building on the above-referenced reasoning, the team notes that the program also employs many types of learning styles: kinesthetic, visual and auditory. It incorporates best practices in that it uses spiraling to reintroduce and build on previous concepts. Teachers welcome the games and real-life connections in EDM, all of which make math truly enjoyable. And unlike some highly structured math programs that emphasize memorization and one “right” way of solving a problem, EDM encourages a variety of strategies in the problem-solving process, which fosters creativity and true understanding. Students are encouraged to explain their thinking.
In the past, the 3/4 team opted to work with the Mathland series, which expects that teachers will create the majority of their own materials while working from a Teacher’s manual. This year, however, with a number of new teachers on board, most of the team decided to adopt Everyday Math, which will take those students through Grade 6 and beyond. Mathland and Everyday Math are very compatible in that their goal is to produce mathematically powerful thinkers and problem solvers who are confident and feel comfortable incorporating math into their daily lives. Now that students’ number sense and basic math facts are firmly established, they become involved in more sophisticated projects and explorations that integrate concepts from several strands of mathematics. Both Everyday Math and Mathland are very hands-on and encourage diversity in the problem-solving process, as well as explaining their approach in writing. Spiraling continues. The goal of the 3/4 program is math power for every student.
As the students move through the grades, the math they do becomes more complex and more abstract; and thus their backgrounds, skills, confidence, and interest in math begin to diverge. Consequently, the 5/6 team has chosen a variety of math programs which will meet the needs of this varied group of students: EveryDay Math, MathThematics, Saxon Math, and Transition Mathematics All texts are based upon sound research and the understanding of best practices. However, each tends to emphasize a different approach to accommodate the varied speeds with which the students will move from the concrete to the semi-concrete to the abstract.
By the time students arrive in the 7/8 program, most have solid number sense and exhibit a logical development of math skills. Students are assessed and placed into appropriate programs, based upon the prior year’s CSAP scores, an in-house assessment test, and advice from prior teachers. Each course utilizes a spiral curriculum in which concepts are routinely revisited for mastery. The approach tends to be hands-on, thus encouraging students to understand, rather than to rely on memorization. As with previous grades’ programs, the emphasis is also on creative problem solving and investigation, with shared learning opportunities. The critical objective is to prepare students for high school. Options for 7/8 students include Pre-Algebra I and II, Integrated Algebra, College Prep Algebra, and Geometry. Another dimension of the 7-8 math program this year has been the addition of two smaller sections of math, taught by an additional instructor—to allow us to address the needs of specific sub-groups of learners.
There are, as you can see, multiple common threads tying our program from Kindergarten through Junior High:
- Individualization
- Shared learning opportunities
- Diversity of problem-solving methods
- Spiraling of concepts
- Understanding and application, rather than on pure memorization
- Incorporating math into real-life, everyday experiences
- Hands-on approach to development of concepts
We thank the PSC for the chance to present this information and encourage parents to follow up with their children’s teachers with additional questions.
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In This Issue...
Stargate Founders Conference
STARR COMMUNITY BUILDING AT STARGATE
Fundraising Updates & Gala Information
Building A Community
Student Technology Fee – Why It’s So Important
Get Involved
Stargate's Brag Box
Big Changes at Stargate
PowerSchool is Powerful
Parent Staff Council Staff Elections
Class Halloween Party Do’s and Don’ts
Stargate helps Race for the Cure!
Clubs, Clubs and More Clubs
Stargate Library Now Open
| Stargate Founders Conference
by Valicia McPherson
A three-day celebration is planned for Stargate’s first Founders Conference. This event honors those who, thirteen years ago, had the passion to lead a diverse group of people to start a school; and to demonstrate the importance, significance and relevance of this still-unique charter school, as we showcase both the school and its staff to the community.
Thursday night the event kicks off with an invitation-only reception. There will be presentations, including a plaque honoring past Council and Governance Board Chairs, as well as one singling out the 109 original families who took a chance on the new school.
On Friday, there will be school tours for Thursday night’s guests led by current students, showing off our award-winning and recently-expanded facility, and allowing some time to trade stories about the school. Friday night, from 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m., there will be an all-school carnival in the new gym and the current multipurpose room. Food will be available for purchase from Chick-Fil-A and there will be many great activities from Fun Services.
On Saturday, October 27, there will be a day-long informational conference, focused on the issues of living with gifted students. There will be two keynote speakers, ten break-out sessions geared for parents and educators, and two panel discussions, as well as a performance by Stargate’s 7/8 Band and Orchestra, led by Ms. O’Brien. A continental breakfast, including an espresso cart, will be available in the morning, and box lunches will be served at noon. From noon to 3:30, there will be a small vendor area with books available for purchase, as well as information on local organizations that
support gifted and talented education.
Pre-registration will be available online by October 1st. Check the Star News, the Stargate School Website front page or Library page for updated information. Cost of the event is a moderate $30.00 (free to Stargate staff), and $35.00 at the door. There are plans to make re-licensure credit available for Stargate and district educators.
Additional volunteers are still needed. For more information, or if you wish to assist with any of the activities, sign up on Volunteer Central, or contact Valicia McPherson in the Library (valicia.d.mcpherson@adams12.org; 303-450- 3936, ext.124). Complete details can be found on the planning website, http://stargateconference.pbwiki.com/. |  |
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In This Issue...
The Only Constant is Change
Enrichment Opportunities for our Students
Fundraising Updates
06-07 Surveys Identify Successes & Needs
Welcome, from the Stargate School Library!
The First Day of School Feelings
Stargate Founders Conference
Parent Coffee Time
| The Only Constant is Change
by Patty Crone
Welcome to Academic Year 2007-2008 at Stargate! As one of the oldest Charter schools in the State of Colorado, Stargate is in the forefront of many programs in education. On top of that, we have the luxury of being financially stable, having solid Governance Board and parent leadership via our PSC, and being part of Adams 12 Five Star District.
So as we look ahead to the coming year, we anticipate a number of transitions. Change, as we all know, is both exciting and challenging. Let’s talk about some of the major ones.
New Facilities With the new 7-8 wing and gymnasium, we will have far more elbow room. Of course with any addition, we face the challenges of finding our way around, dealing with the maintenance of the increased size, and exploring the possibilities of how best to use the space. The great news is that our seventh and eighth graders will have significantly more elbow room. Also (and this is no small issue) every Specials teacher will have his/her own classroom, alleviating the travel time and allowing each teacher to store and display materials permanently. The gymnasium, of course, will allow us more flexibility to schedule PE classes and athletic activities, as well as special events. The Multipurpose Room will be more readily available for other uses, one of which will be an additional lunch period, with the result that both lunch and lunch recess groups will be smaller.
Most students will be facing new classroom locations this August, and those will have been spruced up, thanks to the efforts of our maintenance staff and a host of incredible volunteers.
New Students While the majority of our new students enter at the Kindergarten level, we still admit a significant number of lucky students in grades 1-7. Assimilating these new families, some of whom have been on the waiting list for quite some time, is the challenge that our returning families handle wonderfully well. Our students welcome newcomers with ease and are quick to acknowledge the contributions made by these folks and the talents they bring. New parents, of course, bring new energy and ideas to supplement our already-amazing parent volunteers.
New Teachers It is always hard to say goodbye to familiar faculty and staff members. My experience, though, is that Stargate is able to attract quality teachers who are creative and hard-working. And Stargate families are able to speedily find the great qualities brought by our newest additions to the employee roster. Then we add the fact that half of our students are moving up to a new level, meaning unfamiliar teachers and subject matter for them. This can provide some anxious moments for both parents and students; nevertheless, adjusting to new expectations is a valuable life skill at any age. We hope you will help us to help you by letting us know early on if your child is having some anxiety so that we can work together to resolve the problems.
New School Information System and Website Updates Once our PowerSchool system is fully up and running (before school starts), we will have new ways to communicate with parents. Those families who have access to the Internet should be able to log on to review both academic work and attendance records. As with all things, this will require a bit of an adjustment; however, thus far this system seems very intuitive and easy to use.
Thanks to our terrific website committee and staff, the Stargate Website just keeps getting better and better. As we have mentioned in earlier communication, make sure that you are registered so that you may readily access all the information you need about life at Stargate. Faculty members will be posting weekly information about classroom and team activities, which can be sent automatically to your email box if you have registered for this service. Let us know if you would us to walk you through the steps.
New Programs Thanks to the new gymnasium, our 7-8 athletic program will be adding soccer this year. Home games will allow us to cheer for our teams without driving across town for every event.
After-School Clubs continue to evolve, with several of the old favorites (Lego Robotics, Young Rembrandts) and in-house offerings returning this year. New options will include an after-school Drama club and a music offering called Keyboards for Kids. More information will follow soon.
Special Education support: For those students and parents who have 504s or IEPs, or for those students who may need additional support in the future, consultant Tina Glass will be on site one day each week to work with faculty, parents and students. She will also be available for consultation via phone or email through the rest of the week, if necessary. We recognize that being gifted does not imply that any student will have a challenge-free educational experience; and we want to be able to identify and intervene as early and constructively as possible on behalf of the child’s best educational and social/emotional interests.
Community Building: Faculty, staff, parents and students will be focusing throughout the year on core values and what constitutes a community. Faculty and staff members will work with our consultant Greg Richards during the week of August 20. Then in early October he will be back to work with students and parents. Please put the October 4 PSC meeting on your calendar, when Greg will discuss the program with parents.
Community Service: As you may recall, we piloted a program called Kids Care with our 5/6 classes last spring. This year, we are hoping to expand the program to other grades as well, which will involve your creativity and volunteer time. Some ideas that have already come forward include tutoring English Language Learners in a nearby elementary school, knitting blankets for children in hospitals, and working to support the Denver Child Advocacy Center. We welcome your thoughts and contributions about age-appropriate and creative ways for children to help children.
New Community Handbook In addition to the usual revisions, we have worked with our attorney, who specializes in Charter School law, and the Adams 12 District to give you a document that provides one-stop shopping for school and District policies. Adams 12 will no longer be publishing their “Rights and Responsibilities” booklet and instead has requested that we incorporate applicable policies into our document. This will be made available during the days before school opens, and we will also be posting this on our website. Do review closely for changes.
So as we draw nearer to the official opening of school, please let us know how we can work together to make your transitions positive ones. It’s going to be a great year!
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May 2007 April Gate March Gate February Gate November Gate October 2006
In This Issue...
Big Steps Toward Our Long Term Vision
Let Your Voice Be Heard…Vote!
Committee Updates
Registration Reminder
Destination Imagination 2007
Hot Summer Reads!
Exploratory Field Trips
Mrs. Bustamante Celebrates 10 Years at Stargate
Night of the Notables
PSC - Where Parents and Staff working together
Eighth Graders!
Founders’ Day - Request for Volunteers
Stargate Kids Take on the World – Literally | Big Steps Toward Our Long Term Vision
By Greg Ramos, Governance Board of Directors
Stargate School has long had a vision of being the model for gifted education in the State of Colorado and beyond. The Stargate Board of Directors, as the governance body of the school, are the stewards of that vision. Nearly two years ago, the Board undertook a comprehensive review of the state of the school, identifying several areas that we felt needed to be addressed in order to make that vision come true.
The result was a plan that included several strategic initiatives aimed at addressing the school’s shortcomings that have been impeding our progress towards our vision. Those shortcomings included:
- A lack of an organized and structured curriculum. Our research showed that this presented perhaps the single largest obstacle to fulfilling our educational mission at Stargate.
- A governance model that involved too much involvement by the Board in the day-to-day activities of the school and not enough time spent on planning and other strategic initiatives.
- A lack of a comprehensive middle school program, including sports programs and more robust arts and other specials programs. We found that the limitations on the School’s facilities were perhaps the biggest drawback to creating and offering those programs.
In its strategic plan for the 2006-2007 school year, the Board undertook to address each of these shortcomings. First, we tasked our Head of School with moving ahead on our curriculum project that had its nascent beginnings the year before, but had struggled to get off the ground. The challenge is steep, and the work has been difficult, but we are confident that when the curriculum mapping is complete next year, we will be past the biggest hurdle towards the development of a state-of-the-art curriculum that will truly serve as a model for gifted programs nationwide.
Second, the board completed its restructuring by chartering the Parent-Staff Council (PSC). Jane Baker and June Werner moved from the Board to co-chair the PSC, and the Board, newly staffed to include independent directors, became the Governance Board of Directors. The focus of the PSC is parent and staff communication, committee management and administration support. This change has freed the Governance Board to focus on strategic planning, policy-making, and financial operations, and has left the school operations where it belongs, in the hands of the administration, guided by the input of parents and staff through the PSC.
Another accomplishment, of which you have all seen the tangible results, was the school’s securing of a refinancing of its bonds, so as to permit us to continue on with the next phase of our facilities development. With the help of Lynne Allen, Stargate Business Manager, as well as our underwriters and bond counsel, we were able to secure very favorable rates that allowed us to raise additional funds. Those funds are being used to construct the new gymnasium and middle school wing to be opened next fall.
The entire Governance Board is pleased and excited with the changes and progress toward the long term vision for Stargate, and we are already looking forward to next year and beyond.
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In This Issue...
Construction Update
Wednesday Workshop – Kindergarten
Record Admissions Season
Liberty Day Festivities
Freedoms of the Constitution
Liberty Day Essay
Book Fair Beach
Did You Know About Stargate Clubs?
Stargate School History
A Grant from the McKesson Foundation
Brag Box - Stargate's Paraprofessionals
Stargate Teacher Receives Award
Committee Updates
| Contruction Update
By Patty Crone
CSAP testing has passed, with only minor distractions provided by the construction process; and with every new day, we can see the progress being made by our friends at Ward Construction. Each Wednesday, representatives of Stargate School, Ward Construction, and Hutton Ford Architects meet to discuss the progress of the project; and thus far the news is that we are on schedule.
In a meeting over Spring Break, Greg Thompson (Superintendent of the project), shared some of the details. The infamous temporary tunnel, designed to allow access and egress at the rear of the current classroom wing, will have been completed by the time students return from the holiday. This tunnel, which is being built between Mrs. McLeod’s and Mrs. Bustamante’s classrooms at the request of the Fire Department, will take up three feet of the rear of each room until the end of the school year, after which it will be dismantled. Thanks for your patience, to all who occupy these rooms for the remainder of the year!
Although Mr. Thompson has done everything in his power to avoid issues with the work or delivery schedule, periodic disruptions to the playground use and traffic flow will inevitably occur. The construction team has worked with the City of Thornton to provide alternate access to the job site, but thus far we are still waiting for the final word. In the meantime, the playground area will be diminished or closed off altogether from time to time. And while the sewer line is being laid, barriers around the work site will close off part of the play area. However, these are merely temporary challenges that ensure the timely completion of the projects.
The highest priority is the completion of the classroom wing by August. Consequently, effort is currently being focused in that area. A close second, of course, is the gymnasium. Based upon the funds brought in during the bond issue last November, several “alternates”—parts of the project that may need to wait for the availability of funds—include the gym floor, sinks in classrooms, a folding partition to separate two middle school classrooms and allow a larger meeting area when needed, lockers for the 7-8 students, changing room, asphalt play pad to replace the one formerly at the end of the classroom wing, a concrete plaza between the lobby area and the entrance to the gym, and bleachers. (You might want to consider one or more of these as you write your check to the Annual Fund.)
Rain and snow may, of course, cause minor delays, requiring catch-up work on Saturdays. Once the shells for the building are completed, we will all breathe a sigh of relief. In the meantime, we thank everyone for their patience and understanding during modifications of traffic patterns, limitations on the use of the playground, and other construction-related inconveniences. We also thank the Church next door for accommodating tons of dirt on their site and many more vehicles in the parking lot. We are fortunate indeed to have such great neighbors.
Send happy thoughts to the weather gods!
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In This Issue...
Parent Volunteers Pilot Kids Care Program
Parent/Staff Council Election Timeline
Committee Updates
Middle School Students Take Action
World Affairs Challenge
Catch the Reading Wave!
Sports Wrap-up
Brag Box: Valicia McPherson
Coat and Blanket Drive
| PARENT VOLUNTEERS PILOT KIDS CARE PROGRAM WITH 5/6 STUDENTS THIS SPRING
By Patty Crone
On January 30, ten Stargate parent volunteers attended a training for Kids Care, which is currently being implemented with two groups of 5/6 students, having begun in early February. Every 5/6 Specials grouping will have access to this program for a period of six weeks prior to the end of the year. We hope that the experience of this pilot will lead to a comprehensive and well considered K-8 community service program in the next year or two.
Kids Care is a joint project of the Post-News Educational Services and Post-News community, who provide a free curriculum to Colorado schools. This unique program teaches students about community service, compassion, philanthropy, responsibility—all high on the priorities of gifted children and their families. Most important, it helps them to understand that they are never too young to make a difference.
The goals of student participation in the program are that students will…
- Apply academic, social and personal skills to improve the community
- Grow as individuals, gain respect for peers and increase civic participation
- Gain a deeper understanding of themselves, their community and society
- Develop as leaders who take initiative, solve problems, work as a team, and demonstrate their abilities while helping others
Kids Care, available at elementary, middle and high school levels, addresses Colorado Model Content Standards and can be integrated into almost any classroom curriculum. The program includes a free six-week delivery of the Denver Post and Rocky Mountain News on alternating days, as well as supplements including resource information, classroom activities and project ideas. In the future, parent volunteers will work with classroom teachers to develop activities that will be age appropriate and tied to curricular goals whenever possible.
Tiffany Painter, one of our current volunteers, has this to say about her experience: “After working with the students for the past month, it is clear that all our kids want to make the world a better place and with a little encouragement are ready to act. The students have been so receptive and have already begun to brainstorm ideas for a class project for next year. I hope this will become a school-wide program!”
Other volunteers at the moment include Tracy Spalding, Meg Lineham, and Jackie Hahn. Parents who will lead future groups are Ursula Sagehorn, Linda Tufford, Jody Marquez, Joanne Lee, Michelle Dinsmore, and Kim Reisch. Check in with them to find out about their experiences. And please let us know if you would be interested in working with this program next year! |  |
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In This Issue...
Teachers Get Graded, too!
Preparing Your Student for CSAPs
Library News
Did You Know? Stargate is Expanding!
Mid-Year Survey
Admissions Updates
Wednesday Workshop: Recycling
Stargate Competes at Lego Competition
Stargate’s Math Program
Making the Most of Standarized Testing
Committee Updates
Fundraising Committee
Monthly Kudos
Navigating the New Website
Stargate's Brag Box
Stargate Poetry
| Teachers Get Graded, too! by Patty Crone
Based upon the standards developed by Adams 12 Five-Star District, faculty evaluations are scheduled in three primary categories:
- Probationary teachers, those serving in the District for three consecutive years or less, will be formally observed by the Head of School a minimum of once each semester. For Stargate, the first observation took place during the first trimester and was scheduled with the teacher in advance. The second observation, which is unannounced, will take place during the second half of the year. Both last for approximately one hour and are followed up by a conference between the Head of School and the individual teacher.
- Non-probationary teachers, those serving in the District four or more years, are formally observed twice during every third year, in the same manner.
- All teachers can be observed at any time via a walk-through observation that normally lasts 10-15 minutes. (Excerpted from the Stargate Staff Handbook)
For both types of processes, a standard form is provided; and the faculty members receive copies following the observation and prior to the conference.
Beyond this formal process, Stargate has instituted other expectations for teachers this year. Due to the ongoing emphasis on curriculum development, every faculty member is expected to complete regular curriculum mapping activities in two- or three-month cycles. Following the deadline, mapping progress is evaluated by the Head of School, after which the teachers will receive a narrative response indicating goals for future efforts. Beginning last spring, and throughout this academic year, the teachers have received monthly group sessions on curriculum mapping, provided by our consultant, Chris Palmer. She has also worked with some of our teachers individually or in small groups on the challenges they have faced in implementing this process.
In addition, with our new approach to communication with our families, teachers are now expected to use our website to provide weekly communication with parents and students as to activities in their classrooms, as well as student progress in both academic and behavior arenas. As always, we recognize that some families will not have easy access to electronic communication and so make paper copies available to parents upon request. (If you are not receiving these, but need to, please contact Le Archangeli in the Front Office. If you have any difficulty using our website, Le is also our go-to person.)
Finally, we are working to develop a culture in which regular, direct and constructive communication is the norm. When I first arrived at Stargate last May, we scheduled formal one-on-one conversations with all faculty and staff members. By the end of January, mid-year conversations with the teachers have been completed; and similar meetings with Classiffed staff are in process. A template has been provided to all concerned; however, our meeting is not confined to these questions.
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In This Issue...
The Balancing Act
Parent Staff Council
Shining Stars
Committee Updates
Wednesday Workshops
Parent Pointers
Game On!
Book Fair
Did You Know?
Music Is Back!
Improving Communication Technology
Parent Education Series
| Stretched or Stressed The Balancing Act of the Gifted Child and Parent Patty Crone
Parenting a gifted child is full of challenges. The good news is that there are many resources to assist families. (Check out the Stargate website under “Resources.”) The downside, however, is that most parents can barely get through the Star News in any given week, much less the journal articles, websites, and how-to manuals available.
In some respects, the balance that we all try to strike is not terribly different for any child. However, the intensity level can be off the charts for the G/T student (and often for the parent as well). The school and its staff can be a tremendous support system as we work together on behalf of Stargate’s students. Here are a few thoughts for starters: Busy-ness vs. a Balanced Life
After a demanding day at school, our students often segue into an afternoon and evening filled with enrichment activities such as Scouts, school clubs, sports, religion classes, music lessons, etc. Add homework to the equation, and the week is packed. Weekends can be just as demanding, leaving little time when the family members can enjoy each other. Furthermore, much research emphasizes the need for “reflection” in the life of a gifted student—time to process all the experiences of the day. Focusing on choices that feed a child’s passions and eliminating others that are less meaningful can help as the child’s interests become more clear. Competition vs. Collaboration
Gifted students are often naturally competitive and therefore can lack patience with others who show less aptitude. Consequently, group projects and team activities can be stressful. At the same time, students need to develop social skills, as well as the understanding that no one is good at absolutely everything. Everyone brings something important to the project/conversation; and G/T energies can well be invested in developing that understanding. You can support these efforts by encouraging your child to seek special qualities in people and new situations. Perfectionism vs. Setting High Standards
Perfectionism is often a component of the gifted personality, leading to frustration and often the desire to avoid an assignment or project altogether if “Perfection” is not guaranteed. As students are exposed to greater depth and required to apply basic skills in more sophisticated settings, each new task provides a potential risk of failure in the mind of the student. Supportive parents and teachers can help to put this into perspective, by focusing on the learning experience and by praising the risk-taking. Talk with your child about all the folks who didn’t get it right the first time or every time—notables such as Thomas Edison, Babe Ruth, and Abraham Lincoln. The failure only happens when we stop trying. Cerebral vs. Physical
PE classes, recess time, and other physical activities are critical for development of a healthy lifestyle. Team sports are only one possibility. So if your child currently lacks confidence in his/her skills, find another (possibly family-oriented) activity that you all can enjoy. Hiking, walking the dog, or jumping rope are easy to arrange and virtually cost free. Individual sports or activities such as martial arts also allow the student to develop self-confidence, respect for others, and physical fitness in a few hours a week. Working Hard vs. Working Smart
Many parents lament the fact that their child’s room looks as if a bomb blew up there. For many gifted kids, there can be multiple projects in process, with the resulting chaos. And of course there are the students who find tremendous difficulty simply getting an assignment and materials home, followed by completing the assignment, and then actually submitting it to the classroom teacher when due. Your child’s teacher(s) will have a bag of tricks for helping out with organizational issues. Ask the teachers how long assignments should take, and let them know how long your child had to work to complete it. Your insights will be important. So do take the time to have a three-way meeting with student, parent, and faculty member to work out a strategy that makes sense.
You probably have other questions or suggestions along these lines. We plan to continue the Parent Education series sponsored by the PSC, with the possibility of a parent book club, age- and gender-based parent support groups, as well as the lectures. Let us know how we can help! |  |
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